TIME OUT
PART 2
By the Rev. John Donnelly
Welcome to week 5 of 40 Days in the Word.
Where we are growing to become learners of the Word, lovers of the Word, and
Doers of the Word. This week it has been
my joy to hear some praise reports from some of our small groups who are
already becoming doers of the Word through Micah Outreach Projects:
· The Wed. young men’s group is wrapping up its clothing
drive. They are now considering the
possibility of coordinating a movie night for all men, and a living nativity in December.
· The Friday night group reports, “Last week our small group was touched by the
Holy Spirit, as something amazing happened.
Previously we seemed to be having a hard time coming together with an
inspired idea for the Micah Outreach
Project. A suggestion was made to reach out to a particular family in
Oxford outside of our parish. Turns out someone else in our group has a
direct connection to the mother of the family! So, the whole idea started to
roll with lots of heartfelt suggestions and enthusiasm. We are becoming doers
of the Word! “
· As previously reported, the women & men’s
Wednesday night group beginning to raise some seed money to provide Thanksgiving
dinner at a school in an impoverished community in Waterbury. They report,” We all feel a very deep
commitment to its success. The excitement in our small group was amazing…. We were not burdened with this
project, we were blessed. We will all be doers of the word!
Meanwhile.
We continue today looking at our real need for God’s Word on a personal
basis. Today we are going to build on
last Sunday’s discussion on our need for spiritual rest in God’s Word as we
navigate the waters of our overly frenetic , fast changing, fast paced, fast tracked life
in the 21st century. Those of
you present will recall that we need God’s word to teach us to find spiritual
rest in the midst of the chaos of our times.
Looking at our daily
routines, we are such a busy people.
Demands on our time come from families, work, community, church, and our
own children. In our relationships with
w/ all these groups, we have: errands to run
meetings to attend…problems to be solved…and work to be completed.
Of course, we all have good
motivations for doing all the things we do, but the sheer volume of activity is
so tiring ands frustrating.
· So many necessary and urgent things to be done. And after they are done, there are more
demanding our immediate attention.
· Our Calendars are filled with appointments &
dates; our weeks are filled with
engagement & tasks; our years are filled with projects and plans.
Too people are addicted to
frantic activity, which can lead to neurotic excess and/or burn out. And, such crazy lives hurt us and others:
Thomas Merton, great
spiritual writers of themed 20th century writes, “To allow oneself
to be carried away by a multitude of conflicting concerns, to surrender to too
many demands and to commit oneself to too many projects, to want to help everyone
in everything, is to SUCCOMB TO VIOLENCE—TO COOPERATE WITHJ VIOLENCE.”
· The violence that emerges from our extending ourselves
is self-inflicted violence—damaging our own mental health, wounding our
relationships, draining our enthusiasm, and alienation us from God.
Today’s psalm speaks of this:
IT IS IN VAIN THAT YOU RISE UP EARLY AND GO TO BED LATE, AS YOU EAT THE BREAD
OF ANXIOUS TOIL. “How many of us not only eat the bread of anxious toil, but we
choke loaf after loaf every day?”
Now last Sunday we spoke
about our need for quiet time to rest in God’s Word, that we might become
spiritually refreshed. Today I would like
to look at this concern from the perspective of our priorities. God has given each person 168 hours per
week. In this regard, all people are equally blessed by God, who shows no
partiality. However, here is the big
question. Please repeat after me: How will I choose to spend my time. Now, some people reply that they do not
choose how they spend their time.
Rather, the circumstances of life dictate their schedules. That is
certainly what most unbelievers think.
But the Bible gives us a different perspective. God’s Word says that our own PRIOROTIES GUIDE
US IN DECIDING HOW WE WILL SPEND OUR TIME.
WHAT
DO YOU REALLY VALUE? SEE HOW YOU
INVEST YOUR TIME
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TYPICAL
AMERICAN PRORITIES
3. Optional
Activities
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2. MY PASSIONS
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1.
WORK
(HOMEMAKING)
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god
MY PASSIONS-Internet, TV, movies, reading,
creative cooking, hygiene, bodybuilding/exercise, ‘couch potato’ing, sports-football, kid activities,
house hold chores, investments, gambling, hiking, dining out, etc. Your
“passion” is what you think about the most and always spend time doing.
Optional Activities— EVERYTHING ELSE. Activities &/or quiet time alone
with spouse, and/or children; worship & prayer; church activities;
volunteering; self-reflection; personal improvement, etc.
You do these things
if you have the time and desire. If WORK
& PASSIONS require more time, these activities frequently get dropped.
THE PROBLEM IS MOST PEOPLE THINK THAT THEIR WORK AND
HOMES ARE THEIR CHIEF PRIORITES AND THE FOUNDATIONS OF THEIR LIVES. PEOPLE DO NOT COMPREHEND THAT GOD IS THE TRUE
FOUNDATION OF THE PEOPLE’S LIVES, WHETER THEY RECOGNIZE IT OR NOT. GOD HAS MADE PEOPLE TO BE RELATED TO HIM. WE ARE NOT WHOLE IF WE ARE NOT RELATED TO
GOD, LEARTNING HIS WORD, AND LIVING OUT HIS PRIOROTIES. This is what Jesus is
speaking about in our memory verse about building our lives on the solid
foundation of His Word. So, looking
above, that life is unstable because THERE IS LITTLE OR NOT RELATIONSHIP WITH
God to hold it up. Worship is optional. Nurturing love within your family is
optional. If I can fit it in,
great. If not, well, there is always
next week. (PAUSE) This life is designed to fail. This is not the design created by the architect
& creator do the universe, who is the author of all life. Like so many human constructions, this one
will eventually fail.
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BIBLICAL PRIORITIES
Now, looking below—we see God’s
design for human life,
Here we build our lives upon God’s
priorities, AS WE HEAR THEM IN God’s Word.
You SEE, THERE AE SPIRITUAL LAWS IN THE UNIVERSE, just
as there are physical laws, too. Let us
pretend that you do not know about the law of gravity. Is gravity still going to impact your
life? Of course.
Well, unknown spiritual laws likewise impact our
lives. God calls us to allocate our
time according to his priorities. If we do, then we will have stable
lives. J
So, in the Bible, the most important time in your week
is your time with God in worship and prayer.
Now that may only require an hour and a half & 45 minutes out of the
168 hours that He has given you. But
that time is the foundation of your week and life. The 2nd biblical priority is
loving and caring for your family. What
we are speaking of here does not involve earning income or doing chores. This sacred time is where you spend some
quality time for conversation and fun, where you can create and recreate relationships. This is the time required where you focus
your attention and energies not upon yourself, but upon the needs, happiness,
and wellbeing of others as you spend some quality time with them. This may only take a minimum of two to three
hours, but this is sacred time. Without
such family time, the rest of your life will cave in.
3. Everything
else
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Family—not chores
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1. GOD
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Rock Solid foundation
GOD—Worship
& prayer only. Not church
activities
So, what happens when we
learn God’s priorities and live them out in our lives?
1.
RESTORATIVE
RELAXATION.As I said last week, God’s Word & Worship stimulate the “Peace
of the Prince of Peace, the Peace of God, which surpasses all logic and understanding. Jesus said, “Peace I give to you, my own
peace I leave with you….not as the world gives to you.”
2.
RENEWED
RELATIONSHIPS—as we devote time just to be with our spouses and families. The family is meant to be a class for learning
how to love, and as we learn to love within our families, we can forth to do a
better job loving our neighbors as ourselves.
So, this
week, I invite you to reflect on God’s priorities and yours.
[Preacher
gives encouragement for people to do the Bible Study—
“PICTURE IT”
BIBLE STUDY METHOD on Luke 10:38-32]