DO NOT WORRY ABOUT YOUR LIFE

Once upon a time two men held a conversation:

“I have a mountain of credit card debt”, one man told another. “I have lost my job. My car is being repossessed and our house is in foreclosure, but I am not worried about it.  No, I’ve hired a professional worrier. He does all my worrying for me, and that way I don’t have to think about it.”

 “That’s fantastic!” his friend replied.  “How much does your professional worrier charge for his services?”
“$50,000 a year”, the first man answered. “$50,000 a year? Where are you going to get that kind of money?” “I don’t know”, responded the first man.  “That’s his worry.”

 

From today’s reading from the SERMON ON THE MT., Jesus says, , please repeat after me, “ Do not worry//about your life.”

 

EASY TO SAY.  HARD TO DO. For Americans living in the 3^rd millennium ---we are a people bombarded by stress, anxiety, and worry, according to one author reporting on recent polls. He writes,

·       43% of all adults suffer health effects due to worry and stress.

·       75% - 90% of all visits to primary care physicians are stress & anxiety related complaints or disorders.

·       ·        Worry has been linked to all the leading causes of death including heart disease, cancer, lung ailments, accidents, cirrhosis and suicide.

 

Wow.  That’s a lot anxiety.

 

It think it’s safe to say that most of us expect some short term and minor anxieties, which we typically face in a normal day of life. Most of the time, we can deal with them,  using our own personal resources and coping skills.   But the type of anxiety that Jesus is discussing  is what I call MAJOR WORRIES.    The English word “worry” is actually rooted in old English and German words, which mean to “strangle,” or to “choke.”

 

When faced with upon problems, which we cannot  resolve with our own efforts and resources, many of us frequently react with “life choking worry.”

·      For example--declining health and disease, like cancer, heart trouble, Alzheimer’s may threaten us, or those we love.

·      Or think of the many, many dangers that our children face, including drug & alcohol abuse, car accidents, predators, immorality, and the like.

·      Financial concerns and loss of employment, in a very uncertain economic climate, can cause us to worry. 

·      Caring for infirmed parents or spouses can be worrisome—just wondering if you have the strength to carry on.

 

The potential dangers we face are real---but what about our many unnecessary worries, that are self-imposed?  I am convinced that many of us, including me, have lost many precious years of our lives by overindulging in unnecessary anxiety and worry.

 

Unnecessary worry has happened in my life when a potential or real problem emerges, and I ponder it , in my mind, mushrooming the problem into some catastrophic disaster. So, there was a time in my marriage when my wife and I would had a knock down, dragged out fight, and we stopped talking to each other . I began worrying that we would divorce. While that was a genuine fear of mine, it was not entirely realistic.  The truth is, there is conflict in all  healthy marriages, which never results in divorce. But by anxious spinning out the worse case scenario, I denied the power of God and the commitment of my to me. 

 

·      In this, and in many other ways, Anxiety had taken over like some bully tinhorn dictator. Well, that was it.  I had had it.  I wanted to over throw that dictator, and put Jesus back on the throne of my life, where he belonged.  So, I decided to take some action.  Now, it didn’t happen quickly.  Indeed, there were lots of fits and starts over the years, involving prayer and many conversations with my loved ones, friends, and a therapist. But eventually, the Lord led me to win over worry. And there were three major factors that led to that victory: 

 

1.  FIRST, SOME OF US NEED NEW PRIORITIES.   Across our whole culture, too many of us are consciously or unconsciously on a quest for materialism, which adds unnecessary anxiety to our lives. Materialism is doomed to let us down, because the love of things can separate you from loving God. 

·        Jesus points out that some Christians are so worried about worldly rewards, riches, and pleasures, that they cannot hear God’s word.   They are like seeds, planted in the thorns, which are choked to death before bearing fruit. 

·        It’s interesting that the root word for “worry” in the Greek, means being of a double mind.  This is what Jesus means when he says, “No one can serve two masters.  Either he will hate the one, and love the other, or he will be devoted to one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and money.” Rather than elevating money to such an important place in our lives and being choked with worry, Jesus has a different idea.  He says, “Seek first my kingdom anomy righteousness, then all things will be added to you.”

 

 

2. SO, SOME OF US NEED NEW PRIORTIES, AND WE ALSLO NEED A NEW PERSPECTIVE.

Instead of living life, where we are whacked around by anxiety and worry, we need a champion who can help us. For some of us, we need to confess our excessive worry as sin, and receive God’s forgiveness.

 

When I choose to ask for God’s help in that way---most of the time, I begin to feel my burdens lifting.  

·      Would you please take out the tricolored insert, and look at the line in blue, on the right side of the center page:   Repeat after me, “Rest in my love.”  (REST IN MY LOVE.)   That comes from Jesus words, when he said, “Come unto me, all you who travail and heavy laden burdens, and I will lift your burdens, and give you rest.”   (Mt. 11:28) When I come to God in this way, I feel released from oppressive worry, because I have humbled myself before God, and articulated before Him and me, the true priorities of my life.

·      God’s word is so encouraging in helping to change our perspective from exhausting anxiety, to resting in faith.  Let’s look at another word: This one is printed in red, and is one the right hand center page, above the red tulips.  Please repeat after me, “Trust me, and I will not fail you in anyway.”

·      As each of us grows to more fully embrace God’s perspective that 'we are important to Him,' we will also learn to trust him more, and not be so anxious.

 

 

 And that leads to our third point of winning over worry, which is to remember and to receive GOD’S PROVISION.

·      Let’s look at the top right hand corner in blue, and read together, where God says, “I am your provider.”

·       Then let’s look at the very last line in blue on the page, saying together, “I will give you good gifts.”

·      And next let’s read the read line above the center, which is in red, “Nothing that is good will be withheld from you.”

·      The there is one last piece, in black at the top left side of the page.  Let us read in unison, saying, Do not be anxious about anything.”   That particular verse goes on to give us the antidote for worry.  Listen:  “DO NOT WORRY ABOUT ANYTHING, BUT IN EVERYTHING BY PRAYER AND SUPPPLICATION WITH THANKSGIVING, LET YOUR REQUESTS BE KNOWN TO GOD.”

 

      The key word in this section is “THANKSGIVING.”  Tell God you are thankful for what he has already given you.  If I give you a present, and you never thank me, can you expect me to give you another?  Giving thanks to God is a powerful force that acknowledges the truth that we proclaims every Sunday, “Praise God from whom all blessings flow.”

·       When we thankfully remember the ways He has already helped us, we find greater inner confidence to believe Him.   For the last while,  I have spent some of my prayer time listing ten or more things for which I am grateful to God---without repeating the same one two days in a row.  So, I can thank God  for a nice note that I just received; thank God for a beautiful day; and thank God that my new grass is growing.  But then I will thank God how He helps me to address issues and problems at church; thank God for you all; for my family; for all little and big things. Consequently, my heart is  not filled up with worry, but with faith.  Yes, I have anxieties like everyone else, but they no longer  dominate my life.  

 

So, three steps to diminishing anxiety involve perspective, priorities, and provision.   1) Get God’s fresh perspective; 2) set Godly priorities; and 3) remember & and receive God’s provision. 

 

You see, like the man in the story at the beginning of the sermon, God hired a man to take all your worries upon himself.  He carried them to the cross and died.

THEN HE rose from the dead, lifting those burdens for all who come to Him. Through Him you have been set free; AND THAT IS SOMETHING THAT YOU DO NOT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT, THROUGH JESUS CHRIST OUR LORD.  AMEN.